Everyone I know seems to have a bestest friend. Someone that they’ve know forever and ever and have all kinds of childhood memories and inside jokes with.
I do not.
I moved around a lot. Never anywhere for more than 4 years while I was growing up.
I’m ok with that, really, but sometimes I’d like to be someone’s bestest friend.
And this may be compounded by the fact that we live where the Detective grew up. He is surrounded by his extensive family and friends that he’s known since grade school.
I have my best friends. And you all know who you are. I wouldn’t trade them for the world. Well maybe for some boobs (see previous post,) but I always know that there is someone or several someones that are closer to them than I am, whether a childhood friend or a sister or a fellow sorority member. (Though had I known of the sorority thing, I may not have friended you in the first place, and you know who you are. I still feel like I was suckered in, but that’s another topic.)
It isn’t like these other friends are flaunted in my face or someone says, “Well, so and so is WAY closer to me than you are.” Who would say something like that anyway?
But I know it. Deep down, it’s there. I don’t lose sleep at night over or anything, but it comes to mind on occasion.
Maybe I just have low self-esteem. (Again, see boobie post.)
No, that isn’t it. I don’t have low self-esteem. I think I’m awesome. Because I am.
Anyone wanna be my best friend?
That’s what friends are for
Posted: April 4, 2008 by Cop's Wife in besties, cop's wife, deep thoughts, neuroses, randomComments
That’s so funny - I feel the same way a lot of the time! I have a lot of friends but they have other bestest friends. I grew up with Stacey as my bestest but she has changed a lot obviously so it isn’t really the same.
Oh ladies, ladies… God Bless you, but you are two of those people that already has bestest friends and/or family that I could never compete with. Well, unless I happen to outlive all of them. Let me know if that is the case.
Pick me! Pick me!
Can we be BFFs?
I know we don’t get to talk as often as we would like or spend time together like we should - but even with family and college friends - I went through the craziest years with only you to trust!