Blog-In 2011

Posted: November 8, 2011 by Sarah in Uncategorized

Dear 2012 Presidential Candidates,

We are your future constituents and we are parents.

We are American mothers and fathers and grandparents and guardians. Our families might be the most diverse in the world. Blended and combined in endless permutations, we represent every major religion, political ideology and ethnic culture that exists. We are made from equal parts biology and choice. Our children come to us in every way possible—including fertility miracles, adoption, and remarriage.

Our very modern families embody the freedom that defines America. We embody America. We are rich in diversity, but we are united in our family values. We come together today, with one voice, to express our grave disappointment in the national political discourse.

The 2012 countdown has barely begun and we are already being bombarded with the warmed-over, hypocritical rhetoric of 2008. We are living in a time where 15.1% of Americans now live in poverty, the unemployment rate stands at 16%, and we are spending close to $170 billion annually between the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan*.

Given the current state of affairs we would expect every candidate to focus on the issues that truly matter: job creation, debt-relief, taxes, education, poverty, and ending the war(s). Instead, it is already clear to us that the conversation has been hijacked, with the goal of further polarizing our nation into a politically motivated and falsely created class-war.

We will not stand for another campaign year in which politicians presume to know what our family values are as they relate to the nation.

To be clear, here are our family values:

Affordable health care, including family planning, for all Americans. We will not tolerate any candidate using the shield of “Choice” to blind us from the issues that really matter. When funding is stripped from organizations like Planned Parenthood, access to sliding-scale health care (including yearly pap smears & mammograms), comprehensive sex education, and family planning is blocked from the poorest of the population.

Access to education, and the ability to actually use it. We want quality, affordable, federally-funded pre-K programs made available in every State, in order to provide an even starting point for all children enrolled in public schools— regardless of the wealth of the district or town they live in.

A reinstatement of regulations for banks issuing mortgages and full prosecution for those who engaged in fraudulent lending practices. We want full accountability —investigation, indictment and prosecution— of those individuals and institutions who engaged in fraudulent lending practices and who helped create the massive foreclosures that left many families homeless or struggling to keep their homes.

A return of strict environmental regulations protecting water, air, food, and land that were removed in the last two decades. We want our children to grow up in a world not weighed down by the strains of pollution and global warming. Between BPA in our products, sky-rocketing rates of asthma in kids, questionable hormones in our over-processed food, and more, we need leaders who will put our needs and safety over the desires and profits of large corporations.

Family planning, healthcare, education, economic solvency and environmental safety: these are our national family values.

Candidates who demonstrate the ability to understand the gravity of these issues, and their impact on our families, and who can provide actual, viable solutions to these problems will garner our support and our votes.

We believe in this democratic system of ours, and we will continue to use our voices and our votes to see that it reaches its fullest potential.

Sincerely,

Your future constituents,

The mothers & fathers of America

(this is the brainchild of Lisa Duggan and Avital Norman Nathman. To read more about it, click here.)

P.S. And this list is not all-inclusive, at least not as far as my governmental wish list, but it is certainly a start.

Comments
  1. Colleen says:

    This. It struck me yesterday that I’m raising my kid in a culture which considers corporations people, but not women (along with numerous groups of people. It struck me on the issue of women specifically because of the Personhood vote, along with recent discussions with friends). It’s crazy-making!

  2. knitmanyarn says:

    The rest of us just hope, fervently, that you do NOT elect the likes of Palin, Perry, Bachmann et al. We do not want another Iran on a huge scale.

  3. meadowgirl says:

    i wonder where all these family values leave us #ChildFree women and men at? hmmm….

    • I don’t think these family values are exclusive to families. We just called them that, since the term seems to be flung around freely by candidates/politicians without regard for what family values actually are. I know many child free folks that hold these same values dear to them as well. We came at this letter from a parent viewpoint because both Lisa & I are parents and we started talking about how the election and politics in general have been affecting our families and have the potential to affect them in the future. Certainly child free people can share & support these sentiments.

      Sarah - thanks so much for supporting and joining in our BlogIn! (and yes…this letter is certainly not the end of what we want, but we figured brevity would get the starting point across)

      • sara says:

        Just a thought…Child free does not mean you’re not part of a family…I look at the family values listed as global…a family is not the nuclear unit of man, woman & 2.5 children. It is all the people who love & care about us, whether related by blood or not. A family consists of all the people whose lives are impacted by your presence & whose lives impact yours, knowingly or not.

        Sarah & Mamafesto-Rock on!

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