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So what?
It looks like to me this kid and ‘Boo’ have choices and are not being ‘engineered’ by the machine.
I was raised by the ‘ machine’s ‘ standards, am fully male with the exception that I feel men should be able to wear what ever they want.
I was bullied in school for being better prepared than the rest of the kids simply for entering first grade (vintage 1970) knowing how to read. My folks both had newspaper backgrounds and taught me to read from the newspaper.
God forbid I had a vocabulary! I remember asking a class mate if he was ready for the ‘ exam ‘ and he looked at me and said “What?”
Sadly I hate to explain to him that exam was another word for test.
From then on clear through junior high school I was a target.
The only reason that it didn’t continue through high school was that I changed schools.
Sorry, I digress. My point here I guess is that we all are programmed by the machine as to what is right, wrong, normal or abnormal.
If it weren’t for ‘societal norms ‘ I would be able to wear anything I want
( skirts, tights, heels) without fear of getting pounded into mush.
My questions are, why should wearing any of these things define me as anything other than a unique individual?
How would clothes make me gay?
I decided I liked women’s clothes at a fairly young age, 13 when I dressed up as a girl for Halloween.
I finally started wearing whatever I wanted(with limitation as to where and when) after I met my wife. We agreed to complete honesty and acceptance of each other before we got married. When my wife first saw me in a skirt, tights and heels she told me I have the legs for it, which is more than a lot of women I have seen can say. Does this make me gay? No.
I say it makes me a man that wants more choices than the standard male apparel offerings allow for.
For all you guys out there who think it makes me gay…..
You might not want to:
ride motorcycles, use a welder or acetylene torch, barbecue, maintain your own car, shoot guns, drink beer, have sex with your wife, or anything else deemed to be masculine.
Since I do all of these things, I guess that if you do them you’d be considered gay.
Great soundbite Nerdy Apple! Was suprised that some of the “woman on the street” interviews thought it was bad idea…liked the guy that said “my sister painted my nails and I turned out okay!”
It’s hard to believe people actually think that painting toenails pink somehow means the boy is transgender or has any reflection on his sexuality-or that doing so will somehow CHANGE him! Talk about adults imposing their own political agendas and ridiculous phobias on a completely innocent situation. It’s absolutely infuriating and frustrating.
I’m still amazed at what freaks some people out. If mass media existed during the time that women started wearing pants, would people have been so upset by that? Because we all know that all us pants wearing women were most certainly ‘turned gay’ by that. How absolutely ridiculous! Thanks to you and other moms who let their kids express themselves without judgment.
Reached your web site through AOL. You already know I am subscribing to your rss.
Please tell me you have seen this. I cannot love it enough!
http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/wed-april-13-2011/toemageddon-2011—this-little-piggy-went-to-hell
Way to go Jon Stewart!
Like the page title…LOL
Toemageddon 2011
RE: MIWC says:
April 14, 2011 at 6:19 am
Apologies for my editing, I missed a couple of things.
Blame it on alcohol.
I use it to help me sleep, wish it was working ;(
So what?
It looks like to me this kid and ‘Boo’ have choices and are not being ‘engineered’ by the machine.
I was raised by the ‘ machine’s ‘ standards, am fully male with the exception that I feel men should be able to wear what ever they want.
I was bullied in school for being better prepared than the rest of the kids simply for entering first grade (vintage 1970) knowing how to read. My folks both had newspaper backgrounds and taught me to read from the newspaper.
God forbid I had a vocabulary! I remember asking a class mate if he was ready for the ‘ exam ‘ and he looked at me and said “What?”
Sadly I hate to explain to him that exam was another word for test.
From then on clear through junior high school I was a target.
The only reason that it didn’t continue through high school was that I changed schools.
Sorry, I digress. My point here I guess is that we all are programmed by the machine as to what is right, wrong, normal or abnormal.
If it weren’t for ‘societal norms ‘ I would be able to wear anything I want
( skirts, tights, heels) without fear of getting pounded into mush.
My questions are, why should wearing any of these things define me as anything other than a unique individual?
How would clothes make me gay?
I decided I liked women’s clothes at a fairly young age, 13 when I dressed up as a girl for Halloween.
I finally started wearing whatever I wanted(with limitation as to where and when) after I met my wife. We agreed to complete honesty and acceptance of each other before we got married. When my wife first saw me in a skirt, tights and heels she told me I have the legs for it, which is more than a lot of women I have seen can say. Does this make me gay? No.
I say it makes me a man that wants more choices than the standard male apparel offerings allow for.
For all you guys out there who think it makes me gay…..
You might not want to:
ride motorcycles, use a welder or acetylene torch, barbecue, maintain your own car, shoot guns, drink beer, have sex with your wife, or anything else deemed to be masculine.
Since I do all of these things, I guess that if you do them you’d be considered gay.
Societal norms are crap as far as I’m concerned.
Hooray for being programmed by the ‘ machine ‘
Great soundbite Nerdy Apple! Was suprised that some of the “woman on the street” interviews thought it was bad idea…liked the guy that said “my sister painted my nails and I turned out okay!”
It’s hard to believe people actually think that painting toenails pink somehow means the boy is transgender or has any reflection on his sexuality-or that doing so will somehow CHANGE him! Talk about adults imposing their own political agendas and ridiculous phobias on a completely innocent situation. It’s absolutely infuriating and frustrating.
I’m still amazed at what freaks some people out. If mass media existed during the time that women started wearing pants, would people have been so upset by that? Because we all know that all us pants wearing women were most certainly ‘turned gay’ by that. How absolutely ridiculous! Thanks to you and other moms who let their kids express themselves without judgment.
Thanks for sharing. I missed the intro to the webcam video and didn’t realize it was from your interview.
“Psychological sterilization” means nothing more than “Other people aren’t outraged like I am, but I think they should be.”
““Psychological sterilization” means nothing more than “Other people aren’t outraged like I am, but I think they should be.””
Touché!